The Reality of Love: The Quieting Love That Resonates Neurological Calm
Love Heals As Love Reveals
We have heard the expression: “Love heals all things”. Love “heals” all things by fulfilling all seeming lack of love—whether in relationship, affluence, vitality.
Love’s “healing” happens by Love’s “revealing”. Love reveals the spaciousness, freedom, and miracles already present, as our Essential Self. The Essential Self is the Eternal Self, One with God Presence.
As the Background of Love, that we always exist as in our heart, we may stay still and observe the objectified forms of love rise and fall and dissolve into this same Background of Love. When the Background of Love—always there beneath any hurt or experience of lack of love—becomes the felt Foreground of Identity, then we experience freedom from suffering, searching and seeking.
This background is the Eternal God Presence, the Depths of Quieting Love, that we now allow to potentize as the Reality of Love, the Reality of Presence.
What keeps us from living that and being that all of the time? That direct unalloyed Quieting Love becomes muddied with focus on a personal “me”, and constant attention to the “outside” persons and things that we think will give us love, or love us in return.
The personal “me” and “mine” affection and sentiment rises and falls. It may change from love to hate, form affection to distance, from assurance to anxiety. Human based love is often influenced by the desire to love, along with the desire to be loved. This conditional love may one day leave us, or we may wind up unfulfilled, longing for approval. Fearing rejection, or frustrated in establishing more intimate bonding, we may attempt to control to “keep love”. However, as Divine Love, we exist as the boundless, neutralizing, cohesive, revealing power of Being Love.
This is a Being, A Resting, A Beholding of the Reality of Love, as Divine and Eternal Quieting Alive as Spirit Life The Original Light Pure Trustworthy Present Here Now
The Love Body: Beyond the Neurobiological Stress Matrix to the Reality of Love
The Reality of Love goes far beyond what we typically think of as love. Personal-self- based love may devolve into attachments, dependencies, stress, conflicts, and lack of respect. Even when the relationship seems close and loving it may harbor unconscious deals, habits that hide the real issues, lack of growth, familiarity at the expense of fresh open authentic sharing. If fresh open growth is not happening, the mind stories start encroaching on the relationship. The habits of looping down the rabbit-hole of thought trails (rather than Being spacious Love), re-creates the same ground hog day monologues.
This occurs in all areas of life. If we get stuck in repetitive familiar patterns, we may not be approaching each moment from the Eternal Spirit, from that which we face the messy or painful moments and emerge humble and open, more real and honest. In other words, we do not wake up to the same relationship, the same sense of self, the same life situation, the same health, or same service or affluence each day. We newly re-create it in the pattern of yesterday if nothing has interrupted that pattern. We maintain the past and status quo in our biology, in our neurological system, in our cellular patterning, in our resistance to new insight. Interrupting the pattern redeems each instant as a fresh flow from a “me” to a “we” and to a Thee. We move from the self- focused persona to the Unconditioned Existence, One with God Presence, that profoundly supports all of life. Then we start as Thee, as Thou, as Thy Presence, the Divine Reality of Love— from which we begin, continue and end. We abide as That.
Rather than investing in a maintenance plan of limiting love, invest in the legacy of Limitless Love as Inner Presence. We neutralize fear-based patterns as we welcome (enfold, dissolve) the desire-craving for love (belief love is lacking), as well as aversions to rejection (also the same belief that love is lacking). Love cannot be withheld like an object. Love Is.
In the Reality of Love, the Love Body, Love expresses free, new, fresh in the now.
In the Reality of Vitalness (Health), the Love Body expresses as endless energy and vibrant life, that lights up each waking moment. This reflects as the neurological calm of inner happiness, and the coherent field of love in the cells and systems of the body.
The Reality of Love—Ever Safe
It’s primal to the survival brain—the neurochemistry—to believe: if “I am smiled at I am safe”, if “I am loved I am safe”; if “there is a frown I am unsafe”, if “I am disapproved of I am unsafe”.
Disapproval triggers our fight or flight system, in the same way (though more subtle and mild) as a bear chasing us in the woods or a near- collision in traffic. Our neurochemistry doesn’t distinguish the difference between actually experiencing a fearful situation, or just thinking about the potential occurrence.
If we suppress an emotional charge, it submerges in the cellular memory and neurobiology. It stays there until it is unwound, and released, allowing for new cellular patterns to form. Every second that we rest as this Spirit Love, Father God Love, happening on the inside, the neurochemistry responds with regeneration. As long as we identify as a separate self struggling to survive, fear is activated and our biology and every area of life. All suffering stems from this belief of existential separation from Creator, this fear of disappearing, of having no value, of being “nothing”.
Yet, we exist as the sweet perfume of quiet simple bliss when the personal self rests as “nothing”, unveiling the Oneness of God Presence, we exist as, Home in the Heart. We remember… we come home… and see we always have been Home.
Changeless Eternal Love —the only truly “safe” place. Love Is.
From Mercurial Love to Changeless Unconditioned Love Is love mercurial? Does love change?
Attachment changes, personal love changes, sentiment love changes, thought-based love changes.
Abiding as Eternal Love this changing “noise” dissolves into the changeless Quieting Love. From Being the Quieting Presence, the depths of Eternal Love, this Love fulfills all, simply by being and by effortlessly expressing.
The Timeless, Quieting, Eternal Love does not change. It is safe. It is trustworthy. It is Love Itself, ever alive. The Eternal Quieting Love, is the Reality of Love.
Beyond duality, fear, and conditioning, Eternal Love is Unconditioned and Unconditional. We take a stand as this Changeless Love, until that stand takes a life of its own and grants us wings to fly forever free in the poignant elegant glory of Love.
Rather than relating person to person, thought to thought, emotional charge to emotional charge, broken wing to broken wing—relate Heart to Heart, Spirit to Spirit, Causeless Love to Causeless Love, Consciousness to Consciousness, Spirit to Spirit, Infinity to Infinity, Innocence to Innocence.
As you look at another “see” that spark of Spirit, that Reality of Quieting Eternal Love, God Presence Love, that Reality of Love… expressing as You… and looking back at You. And feel the Eternal Oneness with Creator Presence, ineffable, intimate, communion of Love.
What Remains After Nothing? “Love is the flame, which when it blazes, consumes everything other than the Beloved. The lover wields the sword of Nothingness in order to dispatch all but God: consider what remains after Nothing. There remains but God: all the rest is gone.”